Check out this video of Ian Dunbar on TED, speaking on changing behaviour with positive feedback and not the often preferred manner… a good old fashion nag;
There’s some shardenfreuder there, that we actually take delight in people getting things wrong so that then we can moan and groan and bitch at them. And this I would say is the biggest human foible we have.
We take the good for granted and we moan and groan at the bad.
